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HI I AM JOANNE, I AM A VERY VERY YOUNG 66 CROSSDRESSER/TV, I HAVE DRESSED MOST OF MY LIFE, BUT HAVE BEEN IN THE CLOSET SO TO SPEAK, HOWEVER NOW I WOULD LIKE TO MEET A NICE UNDERSTANDING PERSON FOR A ONE TO ONE INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP, I HAVE HAD MANY MANY TIME WASTERS, AND FEEL SOMEWHAT UNWANTED, SEEKING FOR A LOVING GENUINE PERSON. WOULD LOVE TO HEAR FROM SOMEONE SOON.

 A few years ago scamming from Africa and other countries used to really big business then it died off for a while. I have noticed that in the last month or so it seems to be getting a real issue again. On another site since becoming a member I have had over 30 odd scammers write to me. I know that they are scammers because word for word their messages are the same. I have also had the same message sent to me several times on this site.

For me the moment that some young guy writes to me that is very good looking I have to ask the question why. Twenty plus years on my own tells me that I am not attractive and and I do not give off that chemical signal that everyone get worked up over. I guess its true if you don't use it you lose it and I think mine was lost a long time ago.

So I feel that if these African scammers are going to scam me they might as well make it a little more interesting by using a none model picture from a fashion magazine. They could give a real email address rather than a web based one which is so easy to trace back to Africa. They might even consider using photos without a copyright logo on it.

No one likes to be rejected and having spent all my adult life reducing other guys in a mass of laughing shaking bodies it easier to use websites to seek new friends or something more. Although I can tell by the amount of views I get that most users would rather watch Coronation Street than entertain the idea of making contact. That of course is their right and its might right to rejoice in the fact that I haven't had to witness someone fall into a heap on the floor in front of me with laughter.

So I wonder if these scammers know the damage that they are doing to the less strong minded among us? I know a couple of people that have lost everything because they thought they had found the love of their life. I on the other hand am a lot more battle scarred and a mere message just won't get the motor racing as in my heart I really believe romance and love is for the young and good looking.

Those of us who were never good looking are punished each day for having an image that produces a shudder instead of a weak kneed sway. I have never complained about being hit with the ugly stick because its all down to genetics and mine were not great. I also know that looks are really with you for such a brief time that there is little point getting upset about something one has never had. On the plus side I can go about my business without people stopping me and thinking that they want to be with me for the rest of their lives. This means I can get home and spend time with my cat who isn't so shallow or fickle but merely loves me for who I am.

Scammers have the power to crush someone's very self worth and they are also to blame for many sites closing down as most folk hate them with a passion and rightly so. I hate them to because for me they have killed the only thing I had left - hope. I always held onto that single belief of hope that one day someone might see the qualities that I have deep down in the core of my very being but even that has been eroded.

I no longer believe in Mr Right or that there is someone for everyone. It would also seem that I want to love someone so deeply that I am drawing the life out of my best friend and that's not good either as he made it clear from the start that he finds me gross in that respect and I had to accept that. As it turned out he did me a favour as we are better as friends than we could have ever been as lovers.

So to the scammers out there I would just ask you to think about one thing. Is the pursuit of money really that important to you when you consider the damage you do to other people? You all claim to have a belief in God yet your actions are I consider one of the most evil in our modern world because you are the killers of hope for all of those that do not know what its like to be loved or wanted. You terminate our very reason to want life to move forwards and I think that is the most evil thing one person can do to another! In a sense its far worse than murder because murder is very often a heat of the moment thing. You set out and choose your victim and slowly but surely suck their very life force out of that person and you leave them feeling as though no one but a scammer could want them.